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I'd really like someone to talk to right now

 

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Hey guys. So these past couple weeks have been even more stressful and frustrating for me. And I'm gonna tell you why.

So there was this person I was friends with in steam and her name is vampirecat and me and her have talked at times during the past few months. And she sometimes goes on this community called compactgamers or cG for short but here is the bad news. I was banned from the forums, ts, and the servers all for stupid little reasons. I targeted someone and I bought t every time and I was banned for a month and forum banned perma all for making a false ban appeal. I was really pissed off and upset and when I got back to ttt after a month, I was banned again for rdming the same person only ONCE and left and got banned for a week and then the admin Blue extended it to 3 months. How tf is that even fair to me and the mod that banned me lied and said "Constant targetting" which I never even did in the first place so I was falsely banned. And that made me feel really upset and I was talking to vamp about it and she thinks that I deserved the ban which was totally not true. And I would always get super jealous when she would go on the servers, teamspeak, or even the forums on cG and then I would feel really sad and anxious and I always think about it and it brings tears to my eyes cuz I can't play or even see her in cG at all because of a false ban.

And I got mad at her and told her that I didn't want her to play on there without me or talk to anyone else on there and then she unfriended me after and now I'm super upset cuz idek how to apologize to her and that we can be steam friends again. She was a really sweet and nice girl and now she's gone.

And I'm trying to ask people for help on getting unbanned from everything on cG but no one will do anything. I really wanna see her again and I always miss her very much when I think about how I'm not there when she is and I just want someone to help me get unbanned. Pls it can be anyone I rlly cannot handle it anymore just being banned from there for stupid reasons for that amount of time. I also wanna be unbanned from their forums and ts. Just pls can somebody just help me do it and not just say they'll do it and not do anything? I can't handle it any longer!

And I also don't know how to apologize to her cuz I'm nervous to add her again and I just don't know. I miss her so much and I wanna see her in cG again!

 

eGirls are bait who want attention, just play some damn video games and quit worrying about so fucking fake girl who didn't want you

 

1. Don't get banned in the first place, it was your fault that you got banned and no one else's.

2. If I we're in that girls position I would have done the same, how would it sound if a really good friend said Don't play on SGM servers anymore because im banned on them and I don't want you playing on it now without me, fucking ridiculous right? I would have defriended that person in a instant.

3. Why are you stressed and frustrated over small shit like that?

 

Ok all I wanted was to be good friends. I did not want to date her cuz she has a bf. And about getting unbanned from cG, it was really stupid to be banned and she was a good friend to me and I wish I could see her there again but I can't.

 

Just move on and find another egirl, they're all the same smh.

If she actually cared about your friendship she wouldn't put a shitty server ahead of you, hence why your working yourself up over nothing.

 

You can add my name (Spud) to the initial list of players willing to listen and talk - I'm always here if anyone needs someone to vent, rant, talk, rage to etc. or just joke around and have some fun or play something.

Everybody deserves a friend.

 

Hey man, best thing to do is to enjoy your time here while you wait out your ban, then apologize to her and re-add her if you care about her that much.

Like Carned said, their are plenty of e-girls, don't get upset over losing one.

 

ok but this is when you realise you've fucked up and have a crazy stalker who's probably going to murder you in your sleep so ofc she'd unfriend you and I don't blame her.

source: being a girl on the internet

:thonking:

 

It's ok u didn't like anime or do that cringe stuff so I let u pass xoxoxox

 

Man, this is a part of life. Just think of it as a little test of sorts, checking the waters. Internet or not, you are going to fuck up when talking to people you like at your age, its happened to me, its happened to everyone. This is your punishment from fucking up, but you have to take a lesson from this though, find out the things you did wrong. My advice for the future, you need to give some space, let her do her thing, and if she wants to hangout or talk to you, she will let you know. Read the signs she is giving out, does she feels uncomfortable, is she upset, does she want to be alone? Another thing, Don't control, she is a person, not a slave. If she talks to other people and hangs out with other people, let her do that, she has a life too. No one can fix this but yourself, or else you arent learning your lesson life is trying to teach you. Sometimes, you just have to embrace what the situation is, and move forward with it.

 

You can't force a girl to do things dude,
1. Its very insecure of you to even get jealous that she talks to other guys in a gane.
2. If you liked her and she liked you than talking to other people shouldn't be an issue.
3. I'd advise getting a girl irl because e relationships are hard as I had went through one.

 

Also if you want her to forgive you just be straight up, tell her how you felt and why.

 

I mean, I already did that but she still like doesn't understand but I can just apologize. I just wish I can go back on their forums too so I can see her there. ;-;

 

I'm not sure if it's in your best interest to keep trying to get in contact with this person after they've repeatedly refused your attempts to do so. I'm not entirely sure if you've known her enough, but what you're doing now is probably just pushing yourself into "creepy guys to stay away from" list rather than accomplishing anything. It's never going to work if she doesn't want it to. I don't think you can just "apologize" yourself out of stuff like this. First thing you should do is stop trying to lie to yourself: a normal friend doesn't just ask you to not hang out with other friends for no reason. You fucked up and sometimes you can't recover if you fuck up bad enough. Stop being delusional about this.

Stay positive

 

None of this is meant to hurt you Falco its only to help you.

As much as I would love to be able to help you out with that, I can't do much. This seems like something that you would have to have an honest conversation with either the admin who had banned you or the owner/lead admin to override your ban.

This situation looks like a situation that you would have to deal with in private. What I see is that you are telling her "hey dont go play over there, come play with me." She may have friends that she had made over there before she met you and honestly if she truly liked you or wanted to be with you she wouldve alternated in between playing with her friends and you. This is a situation that only she can control and as much as you would like to have control, you physically cannot.

Again like I previously stated. No matter what anyone does in this community, we will not be able to overturn your ban on their TS, forums, and game. The way you described the situation looks like targetting. And if after you get back you end up rdming the same person again, someone will notice and want an extension. From a moderator standpoint, if i saw this happening after you just got back from a 3 month ban, I wouldve asked for it to be extended as well. The point im making here is that no matter what we do, we cant help much. It has to be you who tries to have an honest and civil discussion with the admin or above.

Alright this is where im gonna get a bit wordy so bare with me. This is a moment of you need to swallow your pride and you need to own up to what you did. You send her a request and if she doesnt accept, honestly I dont think she really wanted you. If she does add you back, own up to what you did. Tell her your sorry, say that hey i messed up and i wanna talk about it. If you really want her back again you gotta do 3 things in my book.
1. Swallow your pride and own up to what you did.
2. Listen to her and take what she is saying into consideration and apply it to avoid problems like this in the future.
3. Make amends. Try and come to an agreement that both parties can agree with. Whether it be hey ill come play over there for a week and vice versa. Maybe even take a break from games and just talk if you truly do like her. If she truly does want you as much as you claim she does she will try to work with you, if she doesnt then honestly I think it would be best to get out of that situation and find a better one.

Falco, as much as the world are people who just want to see you down, there are the same amount who want to see you thrive and prosper. The bad ones are shown more and the good ones are kept behind the scenes but we are there. Trust me. If you truly want to talk more about this. I get off work at 5 my time. I will message you once I can and try and talk to you more about the situation and anything in general.

~Destiny

 

So I've decided to actually give some advice on here since it has seem to help some others.
Basically I have social anxiety, and depression.
What keeps me away from just giving up is using those two things.
Negative energy isn't a bad thing at all, you just have to use it correctly.
So what I suggest is, find something you're interested in, art, sports, music, coding, anything of the sort.
This for me is music, I write some songs and I write my thoughts down for no one else but me to see, and it helps a lot just letting out all that negative energy onto a simple piece of paper.
If you can use your negative energy, you can actually create something very meaningful, so just find something you are interested in and direct all that energy into that interest.
It isn't that hard, and it helps a whole lot.

Of course if you are really struggling and finding an interest just doesn't help, then see someone. See someone who is a professional in this category. It helps a whole lot trust me, from experience it helps.
Don't just blow it off, really think about it and look into going to a therapist.