I Have Something to Share. (Recommended)

Hi everyone. Most of u have probably heard of me throughout the community or maybe in game. Anyways I wanted to make this because I feel like it should be shared out to you guys.

So I feel like ever since I joined the community, I feel like I've always been ignored and not included in anything really and I feel left out. And when that happens, I tend to get really sad and I just don't feel like playing or doing anything and I just sit alone in my room sitting on my bed thinking about things. I would love to get to know u all more, but I feel like u all don't wanna know me more and you all talk to each other. And I'm not trying to sound like a downer but I just need to let my feelings out to u guys. And I also struggle with things going on in the real world such as exams, social issues, and my family just being too much for me.

And whenever I message some people, they just ignore my messages and don't respond to me but I understand that u guys are busy. And I do not wanna spam any of u if I ever did become steam friends with u guys. And many people have either unfriended me or blocked me because they think I'm bothering them where all I'm trying to do is be their friend and I'm trying to get to know them more. I sometimes fall asleep thinking about how this all affects me and my everyday life. I just want to be represented more but nobody here is rlly talking to me like they do to everyone else for example, joking around with me or something. And yes u probably have known this already because I am a boy, but I do enjoy talking to girls and spending time with them. I mean, I don't think there's anything wrong with that.

Anyways I rlly needed to point this out to u guys because I couldn't hold my feelings in any longer. Feel free to look at this and leave comments or suggestions down below. I do recommend that u all take the time to read this. Ty guys and I gotta say, this is a wonderful community u guys have made here! I'm glad to be a part of the sgm family!

 

Just be you man, people wont always say hi. I do appreciate your honesty but you try to hard (Including "other servers")

I also see people talk to you on shoutbox, so thats a good start

 

Someone has to say it

Locked Channels are the Downfall of the Community

 

yup go join a game night and be super extroverted

 

If you want to fit in and be noticed you got to put in the effort. I wasn't noticed around here when I first joined lmao, I had to make a name for myself. Keep trying man and good luck!

 

Being an immature POS got me noticed, but that's because Vanilla is filled with that (at the best time too.) You'll eventually get up the ladder.

 

Notice me senpai

But for reals, I wasn't noticed until the cringe so

 

Create cliques, say hi, befriend people, find yourself a girlie/boypersonfriend (kappa), become staff, start a rebellion.

Or just be yourself. If people want to be your friends, they will come to you/you will find them. Just remember that there will be someone in this community that will notice you , it will just take time to find that person/group of people.

 

Be yourself and socialize with others. If you click, you'll form your cliques.

Hope you enjoy your time with us =)

 

You just need to build up your reputation. You probably wont have an online girlfriend, but who knows. I know I don't speak for every women on the forums but they don't come here to find a date. There are women that like to play video games. There are men that like to play video games. The only difference is that the women of the forums are constantly reminded that they are different, that they are a woman. They shouldn't be singled out because they are female, give them some space and you will start to make friends that actually care about you. Best of wishes falco

 

And another thing. I do always feel sad and depressed and I just need to talk to somebody about my problems and stuff.

 

If you're up late enough and have Skype my friend and I talk, play games, and chill. You can join us, don't do much ttt anymore though.

Edit: But if it's really bad depression you should consider talking to a professional

 

My advice for you, just relax, be friendly, don't harass people, all good things to do, and most importantly, don't become friends with me, it's a disaster waiting to happen, fitting in can be hard, I had to experience that one first hand when I joined, most of everyone just wanted to get in my pants (Rip me lol) the first person I met, turned out to be one of the best people I have ever met (No offense to my other friends) he's nice, he backs me up, and we totally understand each other, all you need to do is find a friend you completely relate too, and the servers becomes a hell of a lot more enjoyable. So just relax, find some friends, this is an adventure no doubt.. but it's worth it! So go and be adventurous! Enjoy the servers and everyone in them.

Best wishes, Kate <3

Good luck Falco!

 

not me i'm here to find a date. ladies if you are interested please send your numbers to my inbox. thanks!

 

we actually have a thread for that!
https://www.seriousgmod.com/threads/serious-talks.19528/

 

thought you didnt have a phone

 

You never called me after our night together

 

i got a landline nigga waddup

 

I rlly like all of your comments, but I rlly don't think I can handle this anymore. So many things are going on that are personal and whatnot and it's rlly difficult for me. I just wanna make friends here. I hate when ppl ignore me.

 

Making friends is something odd, you make friends with people completely different, but you love! Or someone who is your twin (not really) and you love them too, it's odd, amazing, interesting, you'll find some friends, just you wait!